何谓得？又何谓失呢？没有得到过，又如何失去；不曾失去过，又怎知得到......

我们此等凡夫俗子总是处于患得患失的浑浊中，明知道一个挺身就能离开，也许还有一股清泉在面前，却宁愿相信自己的处境是不能再好的了。

 

昨日获悉两人的近况，不免感叹，即使再聪明的人，也会被得失所左右：

工作与健康——一位公认的干练女强人，也许是为了证明自己的价值，也许是为了职位的升迁，不顾身体多病的警示，一直坚守岗位......获得了认可，失去了胎儿。可怜了她这样的体质下还经此大变，想必更加衰弱了。其实彼此都知道这份工作不会再有任何发展了，无论到何职位，都是重复又重复那些没有附加值的工作，任一新人经过培训后都能担当，并不会没有了谁，就会瘫痪下来的。曾几何时你不也是想放弃这里的徒劳吗？一味的苦干，只能满足老板对所有下属的要求：刻苦耐劳，一旦你不能动弹了，他绝对会客气的把你请出去的。没错，你现在获得了令人满意的工资和职位，但细想一下，你失去了什么？你的时间！你的健康！但愿没包括你的家庭。

爱情与自由——一位年轻漂亮的女孩，聪明而又敏感，渴望自由又严重缺乏安全感。她想紧紧抓住完全属于自己的爱情，也想拥有完全属于自己的自由，无奈现实不会那么完满的。在爱情未尽如意时，她想到了逃避转而追求自由；当自由得有点落寞的时候，又希望得到爱情的慰藉，于是反复，搞不清楚自己到底想得到什么，更别说下决心了。

......还有很多很多彷徨于左右上下的人，包括我自己。

 

只是，这样的年岁下，不容自己再左摇右摆了，既然认为正确的方向、合适的事情就去尝试，反正没有谁知道结果如何。

与其日后懊恼，倒不如给自己机会去获得或者去失去。

你，明白吗？

1. Never explain yourself to any one. Because the person who likes you doesn't need it, and the person who dislikes you won't believe it.

2. Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life... Relationships work best when they are balanced.

3. When we wake up in the morning, have two simple choices, back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours...

4. We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who will never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us. This is the truth of life, its strange but true. Once you realise this, its never too late to change.

5. Don't make promise when you are in joy. Don't reply when you are sad. Don't take decision when you are angry. Think twice... Act wise.

6. Time is like a river, you cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again. Enjoy every moment of life...

7. When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come.

 

~Give me some time to turn back the clock. I need to break out, make a new name. Open my eyes to the brand new day.~